
In our modern society work takes more and more of our time. Having to deal with numerous necessities and responsibilities is a priority to survive and be happy in today’s world. In addition to daily responsibilities, and with the advent of the internet, video game consoles, and hundreds of channels of television, our problem is that there is often no time left (and often little desire) to share time with family, friends, and neighbors. The result is that our children are starting to live more isolated lives and social values are not being learned as well due to this isolation.
The Social Interaction Model encourages not only academic skills but social interaction as well because it requires students to work together on academic tasks in small groups. Children who are used living a more isolated live may have difficulties functioning in this type of setting. Sharing ideas with others, respecting somebody else’s opinions, taking turns to talk, following the conversation in the group, being open to different points of view, and be willing to compromise are some of the behaviors needed to successfully work in groups. I think it is very important to learn the social behaviors starting from when we are little children because we are going to need them throughout life. I know that I could learn so much more in class if I would interact more with my peers. Sometimes I hear my classmates talking about a class topic that I am interested in and I just haven’t had the open attitude to step into the conversation and be part of the group. Other times, when I was part of the group and the flow of the conversation was very fast, I missed what they talking about or the reason why they were laughing and instead of asking them I pretended that I understood. There are many examples where my social behavior has limited my ability to share, to learn, or just to have fun. I have come to realize this about myself so it has emphasized for me the importance, and difficulty, of helping our children overcome these same obstacles I face every day. The Social Interaction Model is a great tool to use as a first step towards this goal.
I also think that it is very important that teachers get to know their students, their personalities and their strengths and weaknesses. That way the teacher can guide, assist, or instruct the student how to overcome a certain behavior that is affecting their learning. While keeping in mind that individual behavior is the key for the success of the whole group, cooperative learning not only about group work but, rather, the positive participation of all members of the team. I believe that this method does reward students as individuals because they each have something different, and therefore unique, to offer to the group and they are able to derive value from this type of personal discovery.
When we started the Methods class, one of the first activities my professor arranged was one centered on getting to know each other. I realized that she prepared us, through this activity, for cooperative learning. She did an excellent job because the environment of the class is very communal, something that, unfortunately, I haven’t seen in any of my other graduate classes. I know that any of my classmates would be willing to help me unconditionally if I asked them. I think that overall what is important in life is to SHARE. It can be anything like knowledge, food, jokes, as just a few random examples. These things should be shared with everybody including family, friends, students, neighbors, colleagues, and children. Maintaining sensitivity to peoples’ needs and reacting positively to these desires provides you with the ability to make a difference in somebody else’s life.